One love One life

Hey, this is my virgin post coz I am really bored with studying and rotting at home during recess week. Been doing much more of the latter though...hehehe
PS:I realised i have two Gmail accounts wif the same GuGu profile(lol) and i tweaked my ankle playing soccer this morning, so i don't think i will be playing on saturday I, paiseh!!!

The last few days at home, i have been thinking about many things that have happened in my life thus far. Some of the thoughts are personal and some are public. I will share one of the public ones here.

As the positive talk has been going around for quite some time, I would like to ride on it, but from a different perspective. That is from people who are uber-positive. Namely, the Edison Chens, Tiger Woods, John Terrys,Bill Clintons and Ashley Coles.

Recently, sports stars have been getting caught with their pants down. Coincidental or not, they have collectively brought up the issue of infidelity. More importantly, they have portrayed certain abstract beliefs about love and sex wrongly.I will be attempting to challenge these notions rationally and systematically.

Belief number:

1) We should always be faithful and truthful to the ones we love
2) Love and sex are congruent
3) Men are sexually deprived beasts.

1)

We have been taught to believe that we can only fall in love with one person at any one time. Therefore, it is impossible for us to be thinking about another woman or man as long as you are attached to someone. However, is this the case??

Well, unfortunately, i do not believe so. It is possible to fall in love with another person at any one time. It is possible anywhere and any time. This is especially so during long distance relationships(no direct references meant) I feel. It is human nature, there is always a craving for something nicer, someone better. That is why Wei XiaoBao had seven wives and emporers had thousands.

So then, what is love???Have we been taught the wrong morals, wrong values??
Personally, i believe that love could be a fallacy after all.There are actually rational aspects to it which we can analyse(yes D,you got my answer).

Throughout the years, the concept of "love" has evolved. It has become a lot more of an obligation. In ancient times, a man can fall in love with many women and get away with it. And in those times, the definition of love was never about fidelity but more of conquer and domination. It was eventually the fall of dynasties and kingdoms that actually reshaped its meaning.
Stories of everlasting and undying love then started to emerge(Yes, did you actually believe Romeo and Juliet, Yang Guo and Xiao Long Nu existed in those times??)and women started to realise that they do not exist solely as the right side of the equation, but the left side as well. Men also started to believe that this equation is solely linear. And it became the one love one life concept that we are so familiar with today.

So, had John Terry and Tiger Woods defaulted??Think again.

2)

This is actually an elaboration of the first point. We often coin sex as "making love", but all scientists will tell you that it is not true. It is a natural phenomenom. Tigers hump tigresses and dogs hump bitches, so what's the difference??

There isn't. Love=sex is merely an user defined law to maintain the existence of the human race. And that is because we have outsmarted ourselves by becoming too civilised. Consider this scenario.

For those of you who have watched 2012, what will happen to those survivors?? Are they going to stick to the rules of the game??What if there were twice the number of females than males, or if too many of the ladies were infertile, how are they going to ensure the continuation of the human race?? Well, the answer is simple, f f and f....

3)

My last point is really one sided and largely unfounded, that is because as a man, I will NEVER know what it feels like to be a woman. Some say women have the same needs as men, some say they don't. I believe in the former.

Women crave sex as much as men, but due to social obligations(again), they have been forced to control their hormones involuntarily. I have read a certain article about psychology in sex before. In order to control the urge to have sex, psychologists actually try to fill the brain with as many thoughts as possible, flooding the neuron transmittions and eventually ooze out the sex signals. It is exactly how sex addicts(Tiger Woods) are treated and I do see similarities between that and the behaviours of women.

Many females appear to be nonchalant about sex, undermining their needs for it. However, is it really the case??Are they deceiving themselves??In fact, it is rather alarming that I have read that 80 to 90 percent of females develop attraction for their own sex in their adolescent stage of growth(that disgusting thought has never crossed my mind at all).

If I were to name one examplarery advocate of female sexual rights, it would Annabel Chong.

Yes, she was raped in the UK prior to her sexual exploits. Normal girls would have attempted suicide, but that incident actually made her stronger. And in my opinion, she was a brilliant individual.She dropped out of law school, and started to pursue an interest in arts . She wanted to demonstrate the equalities of sex(dual meaning implied). Women have the same needs too, and why should they not be the aggresor?Her gangbang ultimately became a shoutout to this sexist world about female rights. And interestingly, the world is moving unknowingly towards her visioned utopia of sexual freedom.

Alas, it has been an incredously long post, hope everyone takes time to read it and post your comments.
Stay tuned to GuGu's next column about me,you and the world!!

!Hasta luego!

A little motivation(the one on the left is taken,sorry guys)